Knowing who we are is
important, but let others know “who we are” is more important. Because in our
personal relationship, “who we are” is defined not by ourselves but by the
people around us. This is why communication is critical. But merely known by
others is far from enough. Around us, there are always some people who are overwhelmingly
welcomed, who are comfortable to be with, or who are charming and infectious.
Not just they can freely and properly communicate with others, more
importantly, they could communicate fluently, enthusiastically and contagiously.
They are effective and professional communicators. That’s who I have always wanted
to be.
Through the classes I
have attended, it’s easy to find out that the topics we are discussing in this
class are nothing new. So from my perspective, I think what we are doing is
exploring what we have already known in the subconscious area of our brain.
After that, a bridge that connect the subconsciousness and the consciousness is
established so that we are able to reflect on how well we communicate as well
as to enhance the communication. Let me take nonverbal communication for
example, when we are talking, we are able to detect the speaker’s emotion or
whether he or she is lying judging from their posture, voice tone, eye contact
or their facial expression when we don’t realize it. So in this class, we are
going to know more on communication process and develop practical and effective
communication skills which will distinguish us and build a stepping stone to a
successful career.
For me now, it’s not
easy for me to express myself fluently with English，let
alone communicating effectively and professionally. But I cherish the belief
that professional communication is a life-long pursue. There is no limit to it
and we can always do better. So as long as I am making progress, I am happy!
