Personal Statement

Personal Statement

(for a postgraduate program)

Through all of my accomplishments and disappointments, I have always been especially proud of the dedication and fervor I possess for my personal beliefs and values, which is always keeping myself curious and never stop challenging myself.

Since young I have always been curious about computer and electrical devices. I still remember clearly the surprised look on the teacher's face when I typed without looking at the keyboard the first time I touched a computer. However, what the teacher did not know is that, driven by curiosity, I had looked through the textbook and had practiced typing over and over again on the cover of a computer textbook with a keyboard printed on it before the class.

Thus, I chose Electronic Information Science and Technology as my major in university and I am expected to graduate this summer with a Bachelor’s Degree from Harbin Institute of Technology. Through university, I have developed an intense interest in Integrated Circuits and Embedded Systems and I am eager to specialize in this subject.

During my time in HIT, I was chosen to be a member of Honors School with all the top students from various majors. The high-quality and international oriented courses that Honors School provided not only lay a solid foundation for my further study but also promote an international vision for me. In addition, the experience of working and competing with these top students from different disciplines broadens my perspective and pushes me to make progress.  Moreover, by dedicating myself to all kinds of academic competitions and contests helps me to apply the knowledge I learnt from textbook. The constant challenges also accelerate my growth.

Throughout my university life I have taken on many roles and responsibilities in student clubs and organizations. Through these experiences I learnt to be open-minded to different opinions. In addition, the ability to look at things in different perspectives and good mastery of critical thinking and analyzing make me a valuable team player as well as a good decision maker.

As you can see in my resume, I spent an unforgettable semester in National University of Singapore….(more info to be added latter)

       As a man who enjoys doing research and determined to achieve the long held ambition to become an Engineer, I will continue to bring more enthusiasm and persevere in my studies. Also I cherish the belief that my capability to stay curious and exploring new technologies will help me to succeed in this field and I feel I can do well in the university environment.

       

Control and make good use of quarrel

SCENARIO:

It was a cold morning when new year was around the corner. Jack and Rose went shopping
together.Jack and Rose have been married for 10 years. Although not wealthy, they never complain about it and work together for the better. In the market, Rose found a beautiful red scarf priced at 100$. It is a little expensive but Rose like it so much so she bought the scarf and show it to Jack. Here is their dialogue.

Jack was surprised：“You spent 100$ only to buy a piece of rag?

Rose felt embarrassed and a little angry. She said:"It is new year! I just bought a scarf, is it too much?!"

Jack realized that he didn't use the right word. So he tried to explain:" I just mean it is too expensive and it does not deserve it. You must have cheated by the sales man.”

Now the anger has controlled Rose and the bitterness of living in poverty also come into her mind. She can't help to complain about her husband:"How could I marry so mean a man like you! You always fuss about money just like a woman! I have suffered enough with you!"

Jack felt being insulted and left with a word:"Let's get divorced!"

ANALYZE:
When analyzing personal conflict like the case above, we could easily find out that once a quarrel start, it has a large risk to get out of control. Moreover, the content of the quarrel is easily going off the start point.

From my perspective, we should try to avoid quarrel because once it gets started, it is quite easy to get out of control. It means that when you feel uncomfortable about or even get a little angry what others have said, don't hurry to burst. Try to keep reasonable and calm.

However, it is not right to avoid quarrel all the time. Sometimes we have to let out of stress through quarrel and complaining. As long as we handle it in a right way, it could promote understanding and increase intimacy.

The biggest error that we make when we quarrel is that we focus not on the event but the people.For example, we could complain the way people do something but not the people. Another thing is that we should avoid involve in the old unpleasing topic and avoid using the word like "always" "never" and so on. Leave some space for making up.

How Well We Communicate Defines Who We Are

        Knowing who we are is important, but let others know “who we are” is more important. Because in our personal relationship, “who we are” is defined not by ourselves but by the people around us. This is why communication is critical. But merely known by others is far from enough. Around us, there are always some people who are overwhelmingly welcomed, who are comfortable to be with, or who are charming and infectious. Not just they can freely and properly communicate with others, more importantly, they could communicate fluently, enthusiastically and contagiously. They are effective and professional communicators. That’s who I have always wanted to be.

        Through the classes I have attended, it’s easy to find out that the topics we are discussing in this class are nothing new. So from my perspective, I think what we are doing is exploring what we have already known in the subconscious area of our brain. After that, a bridge that connect the subconsciousness and the consciousness is established so that we are able to reflect on how well we communicate as well as to enhance the communication. Let me take nonverbal communication for example, when we are talking, we are able to detect the speaker’s emotion or whether he or she is lying judging from their posture, voice tone, eye contact or their facial expression when we don’t realize it. So in this class, we are going to know more on communication process and develop practical and effective communication skills which will distinguish us and build a stepping stone to a successful career.

        For me now, it’s not easy for me to express myself fluently with English，let alone communicating effectively and professionally. But I cherish the belief that professional communication is a life-long pursue. There is no limit to it and we can always do better. So as long as I am making progress, I am happy!